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Raising and teaching young children can be both challenging and rewarding, but many times parents wish for a manual to carry around with them.
iBlankie fills that void with proven strategies and techniques to manage your child's development. Find here easily accessible resources for parents and early childhood professionals caring about young children. For children ages 3-8, iBlankie’s got you covered.
Featured Posts in Behavior
Creative Discipline with Young Children is a 44-page article that explores the concept of discipline conflicts as growing and learning opportunities and provides effective discipline strategies and techniques that are respectful to both you and your child.
This 22-page article Aggression at Home: A Detailed Plan focuses on a plan for working with children’s verbal and physical aggression and turning that aggression into socially-appropriate verbal expression.
Children’s angry feelings, children’s angry words, and children’s angry actions can be a frequent and upsetting occurrence in families with young children and in classrooms caring for young children. Anger Management for Children explores how parents, teachers, and early childhood professionals can help children deal with their angry feelings.
At the cornerstone of appropriate behavior is self-control. We want our child to have control over what they say and what they do.
Featured Posts in Feelings
This article explores goals, guidelines, tools, techniques, and emotional issues involved in parent-child separations.
An email to Irene from a 2-1/2 year-old boy who dictated his email to his mom:
Hi Ms. Irene,
Are you scared of the monsters?
The end.
L.
Children have got it right. Tears-whether during a tantrum or with disappointment over no dessert or when a fire engine gets taken from them-are freeing. They help release all that feeling. They help wash the slate clean. After the tears we can start anew.
Many families are dealing with the aftermath of earthquakes, tsunamis, hurricanes, tornados, wildfires, flooding, and power outages. These natural disasters are challenging for everyone, but especially your young child, who can absorb the general anxiety and intense feelings within a family.
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Whether you need help regulating your own emotions, supporting your child to work with theirs, developing healthy habits, or creating connective family activities, we got you!
Featured Posts in Strategies & Techniques
Times change. But the deep basics of growing children up and growing parents never change. Here are some of my time-honored classics to help.
Every parent-child relationship can be strengthened. Every parent-child relationship hits snags, low-points, and negative patches. This article describes an exercise called The Bread and Butter Technique, a proven strategy to use for everyday interactions and for challenging times.
It feels important that we look at pacifier-sucking behavior within the context of the goals for your child and that we look at pacifier-sucking behavior through the eyes of your child. I feel strongly that each child should decide when they give up their pacifier.
My child is an extremely picky eater. He only eats two or three foods and it drives me crazy! I've tried everything to get him to try new foods, but nothing works. Help!
Featured Posts in Preschool & Day Care
This article explores goals, guidelines, tools, techniques, and emotional issues involved in parent-child separations at school/daycare drop-off.
This 23-page article Aggression in Class: A Detailed Plan focuses on a plan for working with children’s verbal and physical aggression and turning that aggression into socially-appropriate verbal expression.
The question, “Is my child ready for kindergarten?” can be anxiety-provoking; this article provides important guidelines to help with this decision for your child.
This article addresses the search for a good preschool or daycare, as well as the search for a preschool or daycare that is a good match for your particular child and your family.
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Written by a mother and childhood educator of over 25 years, iBlankie’s resources are tried and true strategies to grow healthy happy children.
Featured Posts in Your Inner Parent
So what happened to my New Year’s resolution? This was going to be the year that I slowed down my entire life.
Whether it is a short trip or a long trip, traveling away from your child can be challenging to both you and your child.
Raising a family is so daily that we feel like a hamster on a treadmill going nowhere. Sometimes our children don't seem to be maturing and our parenting struggles seem same-old same-old. The Negative/Positive List Exercise can be helpful in providing perspective on the progress that you and your child are making this year.
Everyone gets angry at times. Parents raising young children experience challenging and frustrating times every day that can lead to anger. Feeling angry at your child can be uncomfortable and may occur more often than you want. When you learn to control your inner thought process you can center and self-soothe and feel better about your child and yourself. A calm parent is an important model for a young child who is trying to gain impulse control over their own emotions and actions.
Featured Posts in Fun & Holidays
Make a Family Flag with your child. Section the flag off with crayons, with one section representing each member of your family, and write your family members' names on each section. You can mount your Family Flag on a stick (for example, use a straight-edge ruler or a tree twig) or you can tape it to a door or wall. Enjoy celebrating your family with your Family Flag!
Sing to this song to the tune of Freres Jacques as each person expresses what they are grateful for. As you go around the table, you can repeat previous verses or start fresh.
This is a good time to reflect on the past year and think of the most enriching, fulfilling, connecting, joyful family times